See this… this is how it’s done.
No “you don’t look chunky, you look beautiful.”
No “you don’t look chunky” at all.
Just complete acceptance. Yeah, you look how you do, and how you look is beautiful. Mama gets it.
My friend says things like this, I’ll say I look big in something and he’ll just agree and then say he likes it. At first I would get upset and think “but isn’t he supposed to tell me I’m not fat?” It’s great to see a little girl learning what I’m only just learning now - that the size isn’t what makes you beautiful